Ishot's

Monday, April 16, 2012 7:48 PM

Hello earthlings! (:

Baby fetched me from schoooool! *Finger Heart* <3.

Anyway,

TODAY'S TOPIC.

Imperfections.

Face it. We all have flaws, and neither one of us is perfect, and never will we be.

Well, I think that it's our flaws that defines whom we really are, and they're what makes us special. I mean like, wouldn't everyone be boring and all, if we're all good little angels that never make mistakes?

It's okay to screw up once in awhile. Pick yourself up, learn from it, then look back, and laugh at it.

It's normal for people to dislike certain things about you. It could be your attitude, or the things you do. And I repeat, it's absolutely normal. You can't live to please everyone, you don't live, to please everyone.

For example, if you're confident, you're confident. Don't hide or take away that confidence, simply because someone labelled you as arrogant.

Point taken, sometimes, you really do need to change that aspect of yours if it's making everyone hate you. Now, THAT's not normal. But what I'm trying to say is, you are what you are. And you shouldn't change yourself just because someone said so. Change yourself, only if it's for the better.

Imperfections. Even your bestfriends have it. There's definitely something you do not like about your friends, or your bestfriends. But remember, that whatever it is, it makes them human.

And from here, I'm gonna link the topic to relationships.

Relationships are real when people solve problems together, and take time to understand one another better. And I'm not talking about only BGRs, I'm also talking about friendships. Why would I say so?

BECAUSE, in a relationship, you're helping one another to become a better person, simply because you care for them. I mean like, come on. It's like your parents scolding you for something you did wrong. They did it cause they cared for you, and didn't want you to repeat the same mistakes.

Real relationships consist of talking about each other's flaws/mistakes. If that person didn't matter to you, you probably wouldn't even care about highlighting their mistakes to them, you would simply walk away in disgust. True? It's like,

"Why should I even bother about you, when you're irrelevant to my life."

VS

"Hey. You matter to me. And whatever you're doing now honestly hurts people/makes people dislike you, and I don't want that to happen. Because I care."

You get what I'm trying to put across?

If someone you care about and love is making mistakes repeatedly, do not be afraid to tell them. By telling them, you'll be helping them to realise their mistakes, and grow. From there onwards, he/she would become a better person, and it'd be beneficial to them, and the relationship you guys have.