Tuesday, July 17, 2012 8:51 PM
Say Hi to all the Simon Cowells in the world.
Good evening earthlings! (:
First things first, I've to apologize for delaying this post. All weekend long, I've been wanting to blog, but my laziness got the better of me.
I'm sorry!
Anyway, it has been a relatively normal weekend, except for Sunday mornings, which are never 'normal' because that's when I get to have Macdonalds Breakfast with my boyfriendddd. <3 But back to topic. Recently, I've been thinking a lot. I've realised that words are very powerful. The words that you say are bound to impact some people, and hence, it's always important to think about what you are about to say before actually saying it out. Words. I'v learnt that if you do not mean them, then you should never say them. You would never know of how long something would stay in a person's mind. Your words could be pretty hurtful, and trust me. Some of these words, they stay in the mind forever.
Secondly, I'd like to address this problem. Judging. I've spoken about this for probably a million times, but I've realised that there's more to go in depth with.
It's normal for humans to judge. I mean like, if you have never judged someone, you're probably living under a rock.
And yes.
People like Patrick Star gets judged too.
Judging. It's normal. But what happens when you judge too much? What happens if your thoughts keep piling up on each other?
These thoughts, they might just turn into your reality. And by that, I mean that your mind starts to have difficulty in differentiating what is real and what isn't. You start to think that your judgement is real, when maybe, you don't even know a single thing about that person.
All that perception, all that monologues that you had with yourself inside your head, they cloud your vision and there you have it,
That 'bitch' becomes a real bitch to you, that 'retard' becomes insanely idiotic, that 'annoying' person irritates the guts out of you.
When maybe, they really did nothing wrong at all.
Sometimes, we need to give ourselves some space, and think about our thoughts. They may not always be true, and the people we have judged, let's face it. We don't know their full story. Do we?
There's always a reason behind how one person behaves in a certain way. We don't exactly have to find out that reason, but we do need to have a little more understanding.
I'm not saying that we can't judge, but when we judge, make sure that what we're judging is actually rational, and not due to some prejudiced thinking.
But of course, it's never possible for people to stop judging on us, whether they have a rational reason or not.
Well, you get my message.
For these people,
Remember.
Keep your heads high, because they'll never be able to bring you down.
AND NOW!
I just wanna say that I'm left with 2 UTs, and when they're over, I'll be jumping over the moon like a mad moo-moo.
This week has been full of nonsense riddles, and I'm absolutely sorry for making my boyfriend go through them.
Me: What sickness did Kung Fu Panda contract?
Boyfriend: What?
Me: Kung-Flu! *Bursts out laughing*
Boyfriend: -____________-
Me: *Whines* Noooooo, you're supposed to laugh!
Boyfriend: Hehehehe, OH, It's Kung-flu! Soooo funny! *makes karate moves*
Sarcastic bitch.
But I love himmmm. (:
And that's all folks!
I'll update soon, promise!
With love,
Natalie Ishot
