Wednesday, August 29, 2012 9:08 PM
I like it when you talk, talk, dirty when you talk, talk.
Hello world. (:
It was a great day today!
I had
Ichiban Sushi for lunch with my boyfriend, and then we went to watch 'The Apparition'.
It's a horror movie, but it's not very frightening. In addition, the plot and the ending was pretty stupid. I have this stereotype about English horror movies though, I'm not sure if anyone feels the same way, but I personally feel that all of them do not pack enough suspense.
Anyway, we then had Seoul Garden with Narisa and my mum, then we headed home. (:
Met Victoria on the bus, was kinda happy to see her again. I wonder how she's doing.
Well, there's a lot of things that are happening lately, and honestly, I can't comprehend it.
It seems like the word '
Love' comes so easy nowadays. It's disappointing to see how someone can put in their entire heart into a relationship, and end up being wounded.
And the reason for the other leaving would be,
"I just
don't love you anymore."
"I'm
not sure of my feelings for you."
"I've fallen for
someone else."
Really?
If you had really
loved her in the first place, you wouldn't have
hurt her. You wouldn't have
left her. You wouldn't have left her crying for you to
come back. So tell me. What is love to
you?
It just angers me to see people getting hurt because of the shit people do, and don't tell me that it's none of my business, because I've done the shit that they've done, and I've opened my eyes and gotten myself out of it.
If you're not sure of a relationship, then here's my advice.
Don't get into it.
You'll
know if you're ready.
You'll
never wanna lose that person, you'l never wanna make them cry, and all that you'll wanna do is to be there for them
all the time.
That relationship, would become both of your
responsibilities.
Don't get into a relationship when all you're looking for are thrills, or you're planning to cheat on them. To see if they're the right one, Or to simply test the water.
Once you've hurt them, you've hurt them. I know that people heal in time. But it
isn't easy.
Today, I was looking through Facebook, when I came across a shared picture. It goes like this.
Here's the description for it.
Don’t stop chasing.
I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over. ♥
Sure. I do get the part of always appreciating what the other is doing for you, but I
do not agree on the word 'chasing'.
What is that?
Relationships are not about the chase.
They're about doing everything you can to sustain it, and giving your hundred percent without taking your partner's for granted. They're about telling the entire your world that your love, your relationship, is
stronger than anything else in the world, and nothing else can ever break it apart.
What's a chase compared to so much love?
A chase is nothing but a thrill. If a relationship is entirely based on chase, then if one gets tired, you're saying that it's over?
I'd really like to question the person whom wrote this, and I sincerely hope that if you're one of those people that hurt others, you'll get your eyes opened soon.
With that, I'm leaving you this question.
What's a relationship to you?
Love,
Natalie Ishot
