Ishot's

Wednesday, January 23, 2013 10:45 PM

But every chance we get, we run.

Hello pretties,

I'm back! (:

The picture above is totally candid, I had no idea on how to pose, and the camera was counting down. I had no choice but to sit awkwardly there and then.

Well, here's one with my dog.

I think that the bottom right one is the most priceless photo though.

(Look at Hazel's face!)

It kinda reminds you of another photo you've seen on the web, right?

Eww. I hope I don't look like her, and on a side note, my dog doesn't mind it. She wears that expression almost every time she's picked up.

But she does look like she's screaming,

"MUMMY'S GONNA EAT MEEEE".

But I swear, I'm not eating her. ):

Anyway, I'm here to talk about Commitment, the base of all relationships.

You can tell me that Commitment is simple. Commitment is just being there for the person you love, no matter what.

But no.

It's not just that.

Sure enough, if you're committed to someone, you'd always stay by them, under any circumstances. If you don't do otherwise, then it wouldn't be called commitment. It wouldn't be called love.

Some people think that commitment is easy. But what really is commitment?

Commitment requires sacrifice.

You love someone, you'd be there for them, you'd do anything that's right for them.

In order to be committed, you must love that person enough for it.

Everyone is afraid of commitment at times. It's an issue of finding someone that's worth it.

It's funny of how people find it hard to commit to their commitments.

People enter a relationship without thinking about their priorities. That results in their partner being neglected or hurt.

Some people encounter problems in their relationships, and then they decide to let go of everything.

They would say that they've done enough, that they've nothing more to talk about, nothing else to explain.

Let me tell you this.

If you really love someone, you wouldn't push them away. There's 'solving the problem', but there's no 'letting go'.

Have you really done your best to solve the problem? Solving the problem, and facing what both of you feel, that's commitment. Is the problem solved if you walk away? Do you count yourself as someone committed, when all you've done is run away?

No matter how tired you are, no matter how hurt you feel, you keep on fighting. You don't quit.

You give your best, but you don't expect anything in return. If they love you enough, If you matter so much to them, they would never let you go.

And if they do, then it's simply time to move on, because you've done your part. They've shown you that you love them more than they love you, and that you deserve more than this.

Commitment is sacrificing, being brave, giving your best, and being there.

Commitment is love.

You love something, you commit to it.

And with that, I'll end it off here.