Wednesday, February 8, 2012 12:55 AM
It's her confidence that makes her beautiful, not her looks.So. It's 1AM in the morning, and while I was browsing through song covers on Youtube, I chanced upon a video of a girl, asking YouTubers for opinions on her looks.
I know, I know. I too, wondered on how searching for covers of 'It Girl' By Jason Derulo, can lead me to this totally irrelevant video.
BUT anyway, curiosity got the better of me, and hence, I decided to watch it. In this video, this girl starts showing million and millions of pictures of herself, and asking for comments on each and everyone of them. She then elaborates on how people call her ugly, and thus, the need of knowing other people's opinions on her looks came about.
Well, she looked sweet.
But her low self-esteem annoyed the sh*t out of me, and after about 20 seconds of her whining, she immediately became ugly to me. I started looking at her flaws that she pointed out, pimple here, hair messy there, so on and so forth.
I no longer saw the sweet looking girl in the video at 0:01.
And then, it struck me.
Looks don't matter at all, it's your confidence that makes you attractive.
Who in the world would like a person, whom brings him/herself down at every chance they get? It's stupid, It's annoying, Stop it.
You can be a average looking person, but if you carry yourself well, people will definitely be attracted to you. Your confidence makes you hot.
It's funny how we react to praises.
For example,
Person 1: You're so pretty!
Person 2: No, I'm not pretty, you're prettier!
Sounds familiar, yes?It's funny how we reject compliments, and instead, choose to bring ourselves down.
When someone compliments you, he/she definitely liked what they saw, and decided to tell you about it. So don't reject the compliment, take it, believe it, and say thank you.
No, I'm not asking you to be over confident, and start self praising, but I'm trying to tell you, to start having a little faith in yourself, love yourself for whom you are, and stop caring so much about others' opinions. No one's perfect, and no one will ever be.
Stop pointing out your flaws, start loving yourself, and people will start loving you for whom you are.
And this brings whatever I've wanted to blog about for tonight.
AND YES, this too, applies to the people on facebook whom whines everyday about them being single on Valentine's Day, because they are forever alone and etc.
Babes and Dudes, if you're single on Valentine's, then so be it. No one wants to date someone that thinks that they're destinied to be alone. It's like you've shut off everyone else from your life, before anyone has even tried to enter it.
Goodnight people, I hope that you've gotten something out of this.
Believe To Achieve.Love,
Natalie Ishot
